Repost: You Don’t Have to Dance for Them: Roles (How we bloggers have narcissists in different roles)

Upsi writes about how blogs are now helping victims of narcissists validate and support each other.  Such blogs have been exploding in recent years; we did not have these before:

I’m thinking today about readers like Insidesopen, who have a different story about the way narcissism has impacted their lives (she has an exNH), but tell me that they benefit from reading my story.

I know that I feel this way about other bloggers – even if the focus is an Nfather or Nsister or Nspouse, I learn so much from anyone willing to describe their experience.

The role is secondary to the underlying experience we all share: voiceless, confused, ashamed, blamed, and looking for some kind of peace.

For truth-seekers, hungry to heal and transcend the blindness and word-less-ness of pre-N consciousness, there is a growing world of forums like blogging on which we can exchange stories and learn from one another.  That is positively trans-formative.

The dark ages are over, let the light in.

You Don’t Have to Dance for Them: Roles

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