From Emerging From Broken: Forgive the Abusers? A bit of a Rant
I found this article very helpful for those of us who are frustrated by being told to forgive our abusers/bullies, even when those abusers/bullies (as is usually the case) refuse to admit that they ever did anything wrong.
This is an “in the trenches” style blog post, not one of those 5-step “forgive and forget” articles you often find on the Net and in magazines. Thus, it is far more helpful for those of us who are trying to deal with/heal from/forgive the abuses of our past: